What the Book Is About

Two things can be true at the same time.

“We are non-hazing organizations” is a popular statement commonly used by Black Greek members. While that may be true, what is also true is that these organizations have a history of dealing with hazing that has been dark, dangerous, and sometimes deadly.

Discretion offers a unique take on this polarity. By beautifully blending culturally-rich fiction, non-fiction, and self-help, the author carefully balances the African tradition of storytelling and integrates it with powerful hazing “myth busters”, debunking nine myths often associated with new member processes in Black Greek fraternities and sororities — myths that often serve to perpetuate and substantiate a dysfunctional, destructive, dangerous, and sometimes deadly underground hazing culture.

We take you on a journey with Imani, a fictional college student whom we begin observing right before she completes her new member journey into her sorority. From her new member presentation, to her first roadtrip to “regionals”, to her involvement with the next group of “new girls,” the reader is given exclusive access into her decision-making process and how the actions she chooses ripple throughout her chapter, school, sorority, and ultimately her own life.

It is the author’s hope that by better understanding Imani’s choices you are empowered to make better choices — choices that manifest into purposeful actions that ultimately repair and save lives.

Fiction
A journey with Imani
Non-Fiction
9 hazing myth-busters
Self-Help
Tools to make better choices
Who This Book Is For

Required reading for everyone in the room.

People Interested in Joining

Anyone considering or actively pursuing membership in a collegiate or graduate chapter of a Black Greek-letter organization.

Current D9 Members

Big brothers, big sisters, registered membership intake officers, and chapter leadership shaping the next group of members.

Alumni & Advisors

Graduate chapter leadership, chapter advisors, regional directors, state directors, area coordinators and national leadership protecting the legacy.

Campus Based Professionals

Greek/Student life/engagement staff, deans of students, and risk-management staff at every institution.

Parents & Families

Loved ones supporting a relative who is interested in participating in or currently going through the membership intake process.

Educators & Researchers

Used in curricula at Howard, Ohio State and beyond — a study text on hazing culture.